The Congruent Heart

Health is congruence, a state in which one's beliefs, ones words and the style in which we live (behavior and choices) operate in harmony and balance. Integrity is therefore an essential part of a healthy Spiritual process  This illuminates behavior as affirmation, as powerful as words or feelings. In using the term  "The Thinking Heart" is a term I once heard attributed to Ursula Gestefeld, (though I haven't found the reference) however in adapting the term to The Congruent heart I am also referencing the work of Virginia Satir and others.
 
"The Congruent Heart" operates with integrity and compassion for oneself and others.

All existence is interpretation. As living human beings we are interpreters of our own nature through experience of its possibilities. Confronted by its depths, we are attracted to its heights through the drawing power of our ideals, a power that impels us upward, however strong the gravity of our sensuous nature, What is natural is succeeded by what is possible. -Ursula Gestefeld, The Metaphysics of Balzac

It is therefore important to take responsibility of our own perceptions and the influence that our personal interpretation has on our interaction with others and with the world around us. It also illuminates the importance of compassion in spiritual process, a quality sometimes lost in the pursuit of "ME " spirituality popularized by commercialized spiritual approaches.